By Debbie Gardner PRIME Editor What do you think of when you imagine yourself living "the good life?" Do you see yourself living in a second home in a sunny clime? Overseeing a fat retirement fund? Having the time and wherewithal to travel the world unencumbered? Getting the opportunity to really do what you want? Living your life in continued good health? Having a social calender that's always full? . maybe starting a new career or finding a new purpose for your life? It seems everyone has a different definition of what it means to be happy. And not surprisingly, it seems what we consider "the good life" changes as we move through life. "At age 23, I've discovered that my idea of a good life is all about security. First and foremost, I want to have financial security - I want to be able to pay all my bills on time, and pay off my loans in a reasonable amount of time. I want to have money in the bank to pay for my wedding, a vacation and eventually to buy a home. I want to be able to work just one job to achieve these goals (not four). Beyond the money, I think a good life means being surrounded by those you love - friends, family and pets. It means being able to get outside and enjoying the fresh air and a beautiful sunset (or sunrise). A good life is an active one, full of walks, runs, hikes, swims, etc. A good life is waking up each morning knowing that no matter what you do that day, it will be important to someone, even if it's only yourself." Courtney 23 A scientific look at a state of mind Late last year, the Mature Market Institute (MMI), the research arm of MetLife Insurance, conducted a research poll with 1,001 individuals ranging in age from 45 to 74 on what constitutes "the good life". From August to October, MMI employed the global market research firm Chadwick, Martin & Bailey to conduct interviews where respondents were asked to describe, in their own words, what the good life meant to them, if they felt they were living the good life now, and to what extent they felt their lives had purpose. The resulting study, titled "Discovering What Matters: Balancing Money. Medicine and Meaning" found some common themes among respondents, regardless of age: "The good life" was often described in terms of health, financial freedom, and time to do what is important. Engaging in meaningful activities, and most importantly, spending time with family and friends, were top priorities for those who felt they were living "the good life." Having a sense of purpose in life was crucial to overall happiness and the perception of living "the good life." This sense of purpose in life relates to both at ability to develop a clear focus on what's important to the individual and a vision of the future an individual wants to enjoy. Based on how the research subjects prioritized the elements collectively identified as constituting "the good life,"the MMI study grouped these individuals into five basic categories: "Meaning-Minded", "Balanced Individualists," "Balanced Givers," "Financially Focused and "Hyper Individualists." "My father always says to me, "Life is good, but the 'good life' is better." What this means is that life is good because we're alive and kickin' but the "good life" is better because we're fortunate in ways many others are not. The good life means good health, wealth, happiness and success." Katelyn 25, Katelyn's father is 51 What kind of "good lifer" are you? According to "Discovering What Matters,", individuals classified as "Balanced Givers" were the largest group in the study. They tended to focus on activities that emphasized helping others as well as doing things that mattered to them personally. Balanced givers were generally younger, male and working full time with a moderate income. Forty-six percent were between the ages of 45 and 54. Individuals classified as "Meaning-Minded" tended to focus on activities such as being with friends and family, enjoying their surroundings and enjoying personal interests. This group was mostly likely to be a female between the ages of 65-74, with good financial assets. "Balanced Individualists," mostly younger males who were still working full-time, tended to focus more on activities that highlighted personal interests, such as taking care of their physical selves and pursuing personal interests. Meaning-related activities were still important, but to a lesser extent than the Meaning-Minded group. Those respondents classified as "Financially Focused" spent a lot of time and energy building income, improving their salaries and increasing their net worth, with less attention directed to activities that enhanced personal or community meaning and purpose. Again, the majority of the respondents in this group were younger, and male. "Hyper-Individualist" individuals were described as having a clear focus on their own needs and activities as opposed to activities with family, their community or spiritual community. The average age was 55 to 64. They were mostly male. |